So I haven't been intimate with a woman for almost 8 years. This is partly because I have a history of anxiety, depression and performance issues. I recently straightened out some of my priorities in life and improved my anxiety and depression. I want to get back in the dating game to find a girlfriend and eventually a life partner.
Another reason I didn't resolve the relationship and why I didn't have sex with a woman in 8 years was because I was addicted to masturbation and porn since I was a kid and after a few rough breaks it basically took over my life and All my free time. Later I realized it was because I used it to escape anxiety and depression. I've been masturbating and watching porn for so long in my life and so often that I believe my brain has gotten used to watching and thinking about sex over the years because this activity is designed to make me feel like an observer The identity of watching from a distance rather than a participant. My brain, and therefore my dick, seems to only be able to get adaptive excitement from a digital screen and holding my hand.
About a month ago I tried to hook up with a woman and no matter what we tried, I couldn't get an erection, not even blowjob. It's worrying, not to mention embarrassing. Immediately after I tried masturbation, I was able to get an erection. So I think before I start dating women again, I need to get serious about my addiction and figure out how to reset my brain to respond to real physical touch and move my body when I wake up instead of letting My hands are still, making the only movement.
I've never played with dolls before, but I've always been an admirer. I came up with a plan to try to eliminate or seriously reduce my porn consumption and try to only be intimate with dolls, trying to retrain my mind and body to be able to respond and really enjoy the physical act of sex, and be there when the time comes to finally get along with A real woman performed together. I think a realistic doll that looks a little heavy and can pose would allow me to practice different positions and get me used to the physical exertion required during real sex. Plus, my brain will be trained to deal with a person and be a performer, not an endless hodgepodge of women and an observer of every conceivable sexual scene. I feel like a far cry from gender and my role in it.
Do you think this plan is feasible? Will replacing masturbation and pornography with sex dolls really help me mentally and physically prepare enough to be able to successfully start having sex with real women?
Can sex dolls help me prepare for sex with real women?
I would say yes.
The time of having sex with Timea is at least 1 hour to 1.5 hours, and sometimes even 2 hours.
When I was single and the real happy lady sometimes came to my house, usually only had sex for an hour at most. Yes, 2 hours is fine, but this requires an additional fee.
With a doll, you will be busy with your preferences all the time.
My woodpecker does a good job, as long as I stay excited, he can easily complete 1.5 hours of work.
The time of having sex with Timea is at least 1 hour to 1.5 hours, and sometimes even 2 hours.
When I was single and the real happy lady sometimes came to my house, usually only had sex for an hour at most. Yes, 2 hours is fine, but this requires an additional fee.
With a doll, you will be busy with your preferences all the time.
My woodpecker does a good job, as long as I stay excited, he can easily complete 1.5 hours of work.
I mean I haven't been to the scene for a long time, but I'm sure that as long as there is a chance, I will continue to run the engine with a girl like me. Of course, if it's just "any" women, I can't say the same thing.
And I have a very specific type, unfortunately, this is very rare, so... ^^; I am out of luck most of the time because the person that arouses my interest is already in love or gay or both. .. Hey, but this is the truth.
We all have natural impulses, and single/lonely depressed patients are prone to indulge in masturbation during these periods. False orgasm will give you the little kicks you need for another day of life. In this world, there is nothing more.
Also, are your anxiety and depression better? And (another personal question) are you taking medication? These factors can also interfere with your erection. I'm not sure that the brain can really be hardwired to the screen and masturbate, not the real thing. At least, it certainly shouldn't.
I also doubt that the doll will train you for sex...
It seems almost impossible for me. I know that watching pornographic media is fun, but-personally, I can’t have sex with dolls, just because she’s nice and lifeless... (Anyway, I still like dolls, probably because they are touchable Fantasy and a bit weird).
Anyway, I think I am hanging out here.
And I have a very specific type, unfortunately, this is very rare, so... ^^; I am out of luck most of the time because the person that arouses my interest is already in love or gay or both. .. Hey, but this is the truth.
We all have natural impulses, and single/lonely depressed patients are prone to indulge in masturbation during these periods. False orgasm will give you the little kicks you need for another day of life. In this world, there is nothing more.
Also, are your anxiety and depression better? And (another personal question) are you taking medication? These factors can also interfere with your erection. I'm not sure that the brain can really be hardwired to the screen and masturbate, not the real thing. At least, it certainly shouldn't.
I also doubt that the doll will train you for sex...
It seems almost impossible for me. I know that watching pornographic media is fun, but-personally, I can’t have sex with dolls, just because she’s nice and lifeless... (Anyway, I still like dolls, probably because they are touchable Fantasy and a bit weird).
Anyway, I think I am hanging out here.
This may depend on the realism of the doll.
My doll is not very realistic. I find that pornography can stimulate sex more than dolls. Although I did have sex with the doll. Some people here have the best dolls for money and can buy them, and doll sex doesn't work for them.
Some watch pornography and have sex with their dolls. But you need to go back to watching porn.
I have done some, but recently my doll has done better. My problem is that I am 56 years old and it takes a while to finish, so I might finish screwing the doll 20-30 minutes later. It depends on whether I watch porn first, or how tired I am. Noon is better for me than 2 in the morning.
When I was under 20, I needed a doll. It can be ejected within 2 minutes, 5 times a day.
My doll is not very realistic. I find that pornography can stimulate sex more than dolls. Although I did have sex with the doll. Some people here have the best dolls for money and can buy them, and doll sex doesn't work for them.
Some watch pornography and have sex with their dolls. But you need to go back to watching porn.
I have done some, but recently my doll has done better. My problem is that I am 56 years old and it takes a while to finish, so I might finish screwing the doll 20-30 minutes later. It depends on whether I watch porn first, or how tired I am. Noon is better for me than 2 in the morning.
When I was under 20, I needed a doll. It can be ejected within 2 minutes, 5 times a day.
If you are embarrassed because it will become difficult, you may fail. Performance anxiety. With a doll, the pressure of acting is less. Life partner? I have given up that myth. 2 wives and 2 cheaters. Love is eternal until the next guy attracts her attention.
To achieve a normal sex life, you have to give up masturbation and pornography, and learn to appreciate and appreciate the high proportion of doll bodies or exaggerated doll bodies (for example, huge tits and/or super thin waist).
It should also be realized that when your body suddenly does not have the "drugs" of masturbating pornography, you will face mental pain. You must avoid pornography and masturbation until you choose a good sex doll. If you are masturbating and pornographic, you will always insist on using this "drug".
It should also be realized that when your body suddenly does not have the "drugs" of masturbating pornography, you will face mental pain. You must avoid pornography and masturbation until you choose a good sex doll. If you are masturbating and pornographic, you will always insist on using this "drug".
About 4 years ago, when I was in close contact with a woman for the last time, I had a similar experience. It has been about 4 years since I broke up with my ex-wife and started dating this woman, and I have always been obsessed. Finally, one night after a few weeks of dating, we decided to go all the way...my Johnson stopped working! Thankfully, she understands my performance anxiety and has been treating me for so long. About two weeks later, we tried again at her residence this time, what do you know. We had a marathon! No problem after that, it's just that I was upset with me that night.
Hello,
For my part I would say no. It is very different to make love to a woman compared to a doll. And there are certain pleasures you can only have with a real woman.
For my part I would say no. It is very different to make love to a woman compared to a doll. And there are certain pleasures you can only have with a real woman.
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Im 54, not been in steady relationship for 9 years(happily single), not really worried about it. Find it pretty easy to pick up ladies few years younger or older than myself but only tend to do this away from home, visiting family or trips etc just don't like idea of bumping into women I've been with but don't wish to be with long term so just don't date local ladies. Covid of course completely gave me a dry spell and as I had just turned 51 that almost seemed to be nail in the coffin of my sex life so got a sex doll last year(darn it 2021) It was best thing I had done for ages, has it improved my sex life not really but I was not exactly not getting it but it has improved my confidence again. Sex dolls are not like real woman there is zero effort in getting to score but actually more effort in the sex. You got to do all the physical work.
Someone above said they can last 1-1.5 hours, you may want to reduce the amount of lube you use. But a good session can be 15 to 40 mins heck of a workout at my age.
Someone above said they can last 1-1.5 hours, you may want to reduce the amount of lube you use. But a good session can be 15 to 40 mins heck of a workout at my age.